TDLR summary of major moments: Lost some friends, asked to go pee outside, got outed for taking estrogen.

So last night I was with a friend named Conner, we’re going to call him Conner Evil. I recently got bangs a couple days before, so when I arrived at Conner’s house!

, Connor saw them and said it made me look like a faggot. He asked me if I’m transitioning. I said no, I’m not transitioning. I was like no, I’m not transitioning. He goes, “oh OK, you should cut your hair.” I’m like no, I’m OK, I like the hair, it makes me look good. ( TLDR for context : Evil Conner has been asking me to cut my hair before this by saying it makes me look gay, regardless of bangs. Has been saying things to make me feel insecure so I cut it. At the party no one commented on it, because it just makes me look more handsome. Has been asking me if transitioning a couple times this year already).

So me and Connor decide to go to a party. It’s a bring your own alcohol party, I did not know that. When I arrive at the party, Connor asks me not to go near him because he doesn’t want to be associated with someone who looks like a faggot. I said OK, so I didn’t go near him.

I didn’t bring any alcohol, so I asked two random guys to go with me to pick some up. I ended up getting their numbers and asked them if I looked gay. They’re like, “no dude, and that’s not wrong to look gay.” I’m like, oh shit, thank you very much. So I was like OK, these are allies automatically. OK, awesome.

We go back to the place after I get their numbers, and I kind of define both of them by that interaction, this will play into the story later. We’re inside with this guy, good Connor, and the random guys.

So anyway, we go back, and my friend Evil Connor wants to get something from my car. I’m like OK, I’ll get something from my car, not a big deal. I say my car is locked, it’s not unlocked, I purposely left it locked. When they go towards it, I walk with them, and they grab one beer. I’m like OK, OK, not a big deal, it’s just one beer, whatever.

Eventually they grab another. I’m like… OK. At that point I’m like, you know what, I’m going to lock my car. So I lock my car. Then they ask me, “can I have a beer?” I say no, you can’t.

I tell the good Connor about it, and evil Connor comes to us and asks me for another beer. Good Conner says, “hey, you should get your own beer.” He keeps on begging for a while and suggest I bring my beer to fridge for everyone. I’m like yeah, you should come with me if you want a beer, I don’t mind driving you. And Evil Connor is like “no, I’m OK,”. Then once evil Conner leaves good Conner says “I don’t fuck with that”.

So Connor eventually leaves, and these two guys are already on edge about him. It kind of works out for me even though good Conner brought me there.

Eventually, a couple hours later, his friend Tyler shows up. Tyler’s like, “hey, are you transitioning? Are you taking estrogen? How long have you been transitioning?” I’m drunk, so I’m like, “yeah, I’m taking estrogen.” He’s like, “what the fuck?” I’m like no no, I actually just got really fat and that’s why I got breast development.

I’m honestly surprised they didn’t realize shit earlier, but yeah, I accidentally admitted to taking estrogen.

I go back outside for a bit, blah blah blah, then I go back in because I have to go to the restroom. Connor is there again, and he blocks me from going to the restroom. He says, “you can’t go down there.” I’m like why? I need to pee.

He says, “you have to pee outside like a man.”

I’m like, “I’m not a fucking animal. I’m not going to pee outside.”

He gets in my face and says, “you’re going to pee outside.” Tyler says, “go pee outside like a man.” They probably think I removed my dick or whatever, like I’m not a real man, so I have to pee outside, which isn’t even true. I just… I’m not a fucking animal.

So people hear that, good Connor hears that, and they get really upset at Connor. After that, people are talking about Connor, and I’m like OK, maybe something’s going on. They already know Connor is kind of anti-gay. After that Conner leaves and it could have been influenced by that

Earlier, Tyler had already asked me, “hey, why are you a faggot?” I’m like OK, I really don’t see the issue with me being gay — and I’m not even gay — but even if I was, what’s the problem? This is 2026. Like, too bad.

Once it was 1 AM, Eventually Tyler is like, “hey, you have to leave, everyone’s leaving the house.” I’m like oh OK, not a big deal. ( TLDR: Not everyone had to leave, the owner wanted people to sober up first, but Tyler lied and told me everyone was leaving ). Many of them left to a dinner and I asked to come along.

They’re like, “hey, you gonna go?” I hear they’re going somewhere else or whatever. I’m like OK, I’ll follow you guys. I follow them, and eventually… I drive home.

Yea that was a fun night. If your invested there are other little moments too. Like Evil Connor telling me that another guy ( Oliver ) didn’t want me near him anymore, “this guy doesn’t want to talk to you for the rest of the night, don’t go near him, he doesn’t want to talk to you anymore, you fucked up.” I’m like that’s pretty fucking weird.

So I go over to Oliver and I’m like, “hey, what’s going on?” He’s like, “what do you mean?” I’m like, Connor said not to go near you. He’s like, “oh dude, fuck Connor, he’s tweaking.”

Another moment. Conner must have told Tyler that I said he’s short (“ I said my dating life is hard because I’m short so I know how Tyler must have felt “). Because why would Tyler comment on me using estrogen? So that’s probably why Tyler was upset with me and Conner wanted me to pee outside. They were both sitting on the sofa inside before that moment happened.

I’m just like, what the fuck, this dude is trying to distance me from my friends by saying I’m a faggot or transgender or whatever. I mean… he’s not wrong, he’s right, which is funny but the fact he’s trying to use it against me is like what the fuck.

Anyways that was my night last night, and my date skipped out on me. Hahaha flash back to “ https://tranistan.com/post/14997 “