like ik dysphoria is a bitch but i feel like a honlarping bddoid whenever i say shit like how i hate being 5’7", im not even trying to ropefuel, ik i got off relatively easy as far as troons go but i still feel like shit

idk just stupid bs abt how i have nowhere to vent in tranny spaces without someone saying im hecking vxlid or alternatively someone saying giwtwm

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    i feel like a honlarping bddoid whenever i say shit like how i hate being 5’7"

    I dont think you just feel like one, you literally just are one if thats the type of shit youre complaining about

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      im taller than 90% of women on average, and likely an even higher % if u take into account the fact that i live in one shortest areas of the country, like a solid 50% of moids are shorter than me, and yea i am actually diagnosed with bdd so i try not to trust what i see in the mirror but i literally cant cope with stuff i cant blame on my personal perception

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        ok but 5’7 is an entirely normal female height, youre shorter than 1 in every 10 women which probably means you see multiple whenever you go outside

        youre also hardly even taller than the female avarage its not exactly like your towering over anyone is it

        also “i feel like a bdd honlarper” “yes im diagnosed with bdd” ??? so you are one then 😭

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          ig i shoulve been more clear but like i mean like specific archetype some tranners complain abt, like a passoid who gets enjoyment out of pretending to not pass and uses bdd as an excuse, im not that, i dont pass which is smth people here acknowledge, and i very rarely malefail, and i try not to even bring up having bdd

          also seeing a woman shorter than me is not that common, its prob just bc of where i live but its way closer to 1 in 50+ than 1 in 10

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    Well, would you like to be 6’ instead? I mean if you feel bad then what I should feel I genuinely don’t know.

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    It’s odd dooming about height specifically if you’re that height. I have a similar height and I don’t ever doom about it at all. Being trans gives you lots of other terrible features, why not doom about them instead? That’s what I do.

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      its not the main thing i doom abt normally but its one of the few things that i dont wonder if im just brainwormed over as its pretty quantifiable