How do you accept that you’re actually attracted to women

  • Grandfather's ClockOP
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    28 days ago

    What exactly bothers me is the shame I feel because: women aren’t gynephilic, straight men are. Gynephilia proves that I’m not a real woman but am instead a fuckedd up straight man whose gender dysphoria results from misplaced sexual desire.

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        28 days ago

        Lesbians are born women. I wasn’t so my gynephilia ensures that I can’t become a woman

        • HelloFedsItsMe
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          28 days ago

          Your priority should be becoming closer to being physically female, not coming closer to embodying misogynistic stereotypes.

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        28 days ago

        Why is being trutrans so important to me? Hm I don’t think I know

        I think because if I’m not trutrans then I threw my life away just for a fetish right? But I don’t regret it

        Maybe because if I’m faketrans then I have a valid reason to hate myself and to be ashamed? But again ask why and I don’t know. I really don’t know