like does being they’d or not being gendered count? i feel like it shouldn’t but ive heard some ppl say it does

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    20 days ago

    getting they’d is like 80% as bad as getting him’d especially if i can tell the person doing it is making an effort to

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      20 days ago

      i guess it depends but i feel like in my area i see people use they for everyone even cis ppl

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        20 days ago

        nah thats fakewoke garbage. im not gender neutral dont gender neutral me i hate it

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          20 days ago

          i mean i don’t like it but it doesn’t rly mean they clocked you so i feel like it doesn’t count

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    20 days ago

    There’s a difference between theying bc they don’t know ur pronouns and knowing your pronouns and refusing to use the right ones.

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      20 days ago

      that’s true. maybe like at a restaurant if the waiter says “what can i get you miss” to one person and then “and for you” to the other person would that count?