only way to know if you pass or not and also a lot of you need to touch some grass and meet normal people.

and don’t blame me if your specific circumstances won’t allow that, I‘m talking GENERALLY

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      read my last sentence plus i think you still need to go outside to get better

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    I’ll believe the cashier at the store and my coworkers over some weirdo internet frenologist any day

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    what if nobody uses gendered language

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      similar situation where I live, but you can still get hints sometimes. especially when you get thrown out of a bathroom

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        idk how to get hints frankly because i have never been thrown out of bathrooms but nobody uses gendered language for fuckin anyone here either

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          yea I‘ve had times where I didn’t get gendered for like half a year, because people gender anyone super rarely here, but you can still get an idea from context clues i think

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    trvke, 90% of the time people who appear passing in photos have non passing voice anyways so they can’t pass irl regardless