I may be too woke but I think being a trans man who owns a stuffed animal or has a fashion sense outside of t-shirts, hoodies and jeans doesn’t make you a hefab. Also, I think it’s possible for a trans man to date a bishit cismoid who geniuely does see him as a man. In fairness I’m close friends with a bi cis man who is genuinely very trans positive (how the fuck do you say not weird about trannies in a way that sounds normal?) so I’m probably biased.
I also saw one post that got mad at pooners calling themselves guys instead of men. Not like, only calling themselves guy and never men, but just referring to themselves in posts as " a trans guy". I get disliking when we call ourselves boys, but guys is too feminine now? Fuck off.
idk ive never had good experiences with men. the guy who groomed me was bisexual and with him and many others there seems to be a large subset of bi men where theyre the ‘women and femboys’ kind of bi
like i feel like its kidn of dangerous to take them at their word
for sure
That’s mostly an online thing. The femboy part I mean. Irl most bi men just find men and women attractive.
As for the groomed thing, yeah, that does suck ass so I see why you’d be wary.